How dare they?

Pippah45 replied on 25/10/2016 20:30

Posted on 25/10/2016 20:30

I know banks are busy protecting us from fraud but.....  Last week my Brother in Law - a retired professional man around 80 used his plastic to buy a computer for my sister - hers had died.  Card was refused so deep embarrassment - he then tried to use it to buy some quails eggs on the way home - again no go.  Contacted his bank and they said "it was refused because we though it very unlikely that a retired ........ of your age would be buying a computer"  EXCUSE ME???  Jumped up little puppies - need a better excuse than such an ageist remark?  I am grateful that they are on the alert but.....??  What do others think? 

cyberyacht replied on 27/10/2016 09:59

Posted on 27/10/2016 09:59

Having just spent the last two days sorting out plastic following the theft of OH's purse, it is reassuring that this is monitored. In fact the girl in NatWest said irregular transactions would be spotted by them before we even knew about it.

Spriddler replied on 27/10/2016 10:06

Posted on 27/10/2016 10:06

Having just spent the last two days sorting out plastic following the theft of OH's purse,...........

Wasn't it Tommy Cooper who said he didn't report that his wife's credit card had been stolen because the thief was spending less than she did?

Pippah45 replied on 27/10/2016 10:13

Posted on 27/10/2016 10:13

Pippah, Given those circumstances I can understand your concern, but the OP and my experience was about the bank trying to ensure that unusual transactions were not as the result of a criminal act. So under those circumstances I would prefer that to happen than someone get away with fraudulently using my stolen card!

TF

Write your comments here...Tigerfish I was the OP Smile  And my concern was for the crass comment to my Brother in Law that he was too old to be buying a computer!  He is a sensitive soul and not as experienced with such hitches as having his card refused never mind the Ageist comment by way of explanation. 

Metheven replied on 27/10/2016 10:17

Posted on 27/10/2016 10:17

Agree the bank should take all precautions but the bank spokesperson need a little more training in how not to be condescending, bloody cheek Yell

SteveL replied on 27/10/2016 10:26

Posted on 27/10/2016 10:26

Certainly a very poor response from the operative on the other end of the phone. I have no problem with the refusal. I have had mine refused a couple of times when trying to buy something else after buying a smart phone. Much better than someone running up a huge bill, which I would have to sort out  if it was being used fraudulently. When I asked what prompted the refusal, they just said it was all done by computers running algorithms, that assessed unusual spending. Possibly a polite way of saying, we thought you were to old for a smart phone.

paul56 replied on 27/10/2016 14:32

Posted on 27/10/2016 14:32

Yes unfortunate response but well done the bank in some respects. A year or so ago I was paying for a car using my debit card so I warned the bank (a well known West Yorkshire town) of the large transaction (around £17k) and was told I needen't have bothered. I did find that disconcerting, but there again I'm getting old now!

brue replied on 27/10/2016 14:35

Posted on 27/10/2016 14:35

It's even worse when they go through their security checks and you can't remember half of them! Wink

huskydog replied on 27/10/2016 14:41

Posted on 27/10/2016 14:41

My bank phoned me today to tell me they have noticed some unusall activity on my business card , some one had tried to top up their mobile phone for a total of £5.93, surely if someone is going to try and use your card they would make it worth it , so now the bank has canncelled my card and it will be 5 days before a new one comes throughYell

brue replied on 27/10/2016 14:45

Posted on 27/10/2016 14:45

I believe these small transactions are the ones that people don't notice but can add up to a lot across the network. Good that the bank spotted it!

ABM replied on 27/10/2016 14:52

Posted on 27/10/2016 14:52

1 )   A few  years  ago  when  in  my  bank  for  an  annual  "Health  Check" the  Lady  asked  if  I  ever  bought  things  on  line  and,   if  so,  using  which  card.  When  I  produced  my  credit  card  she went  a  little  paler,  shot  off  &  ten  mins  later,  re-appeared  with  a  similar  card  but  with  a  very  limited  top  figure.  I  was  told  to  use  that  on-line  but  not  to  take  it  out  with  my  other  cards  in  case  I  mixed  them  up.

2)  when  I  bought  my  latest  camper  I  told  the  bank  how  much  &  when  I  was  paying.  They  thanked  me  and  said  nevertheless,  expect  a  call  on  your  mobile  within  5  mins,  just  to  be  safe..

Was  I  worried,  offended  --  NO  just  thankful  that  they  cared  about  this  old  aged  customer  &  his  money  Smile

 

Brian

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