Am I an outdated fuddy duddy?

GrahamCraik replied on 14/01/2023 16:01

Posted on 14/01/2023 16:01

Good afternoon Campers. 

I have been camping in tents, a caravan and more recently a campervan for the last 50 years. I was taught and have always believed that it is rude to walk across or through other people's pitches. This weekend, we are staying at Henley Four Oaks and we have recently stayed at Cirencester, Tewkesbury and Moreton-in-Marsh.

I am somewhat saddened that in all cases, people have walked right through our pitches, within feet of our van, to take a shortcut to wherever they are off to. 

 People are close enough to peer in through our windows. 

Am I right in thinking this is rude and inconsiderate behaviour? Or am I just being old-fashioned in these enlightened times? 

 

huskydog replied on 14/01/2023 17:05

Posted on 14/01/2023 16:01 by GrahamCraik

Good afternoon Campers. 

I have been camping in tents, a caravan and more recently a campervan for the last 50 years. I was taught and have always believed that it is rude to walk across or through other people's pitches. This weekend, we are staying at Henley Four Oaks and we have recently stayed at Cirencester, Tewkesbury and Moreton-in-Marsh.

I am somewhat saddened that in all cases, people have walked right through our pitches, within feet of our van, to take a shortcut to wherever they are off to. 

 People are close enough to peer in through our windows. 

Am I right in thinking this is rude and inconsiderate behaviour? Or am I just being old-fashioned in these enlightened times? 

 

Posted on 14/01/2023 17:05

You could follow the perpetrators back to their pitch and walk across theirs , or just chill as your only on holiday there for a few days cool

 

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Cornersteady replied on 14/01/2023 17:27

Posted on 14/01/2023 17:00 by eurortraveller

Some are irritated by it, some aren’t -but it’s the design and layout of some sites which lead to it happening. You might be happier if you pitched at the site perimeter rather than the centre -  or chose a different style of site altogether.

Posted on 14/01/2023 17:27

but it’s the design and layout of some sites which lead to it happening

That is just not true, the design and layout has nothing to do with it. Anymore than cars having the ability to go past a speed limit causes speeding.

It is happening because won't respect the rules and their fellow campers and/or if those rules are not enforced or the behaviour is not challenged.

Cornersteady replied on 14/01/2023 17:29

Posted on 14/01/2023 17:05 by huskydog

You could follow the perpetrators back to their pitch and walk across theirs , or just chill as your only on holiday there for a few days cool

 

Posted on 14/01/2023 17:29

I think that's the idea of being on holiday the chance to chill out but it perhaps gets difficult  for the OP to do that with people walking on your pitch?

Rocky 2 buckets replied on 14/01/2023 17:35

Posted on 14/01/2023 17:35

I have no issues with cutting across pitches. I don’t think you are rude just living in the past. I’d love to buy beer at 1970’s prices but life changes with the years. You rent your space for x days & that is it. By getting stressed you are taking away from your own holiday/break. I’ve met folk & talked quite a while as they cut thru the pitch I was renting it has happened many many times too🤷🏻‍♂️

huskydog replied on 14/01/2023 17:49

Posted on 14/01/2023 17:35 by Rocky 2 buckets

I have no issues with cutting across pitches. I don’t think you are rude just living in the past. I’d love to buy beer at 1970’s prices but life changes with the years. You rent your space for x days & that is it. By getting stressed you are taking away from your own holiday/break. I’ve met folk & talked quite a while as they cut thru the pitch I was renting it has happened many many times too🤷🏻‍♂️

Posted on 14/01/2023 17:49

+1 cool

TimboC replied on 14/01/2023 22:06

Posted on 14/01/2023 16:01 by GrahamCraik

Good afternoon Campers. 

I have been camping in tents, a caravan and more recently a campervan for the last 50 years. I was taught and have always believed that it is rude to walk across or through other people's pitches. This weekend, we are staying at Henley Four Oaks and we have recently stayed at Cirencester, Tewkesbury and Moreton-in-Marsh.

I am somewhat saddened that in all cases, people have walked right through our pitches, within feet of our van, to take a shortcut to wherever they are off to. 

 People are close enough to peer in through our windows. 

Am I right in thinking this is rude and inconsiderate behaviour? Or am I just being old-fashioned in these enlightened times? 

 

Posted on 14/01/2023 22:06

You're right Graham, and I'm on your side 

SteveL replied on 14/01/2023 22:30

Posted on 14/01/2023 17:35 by Rocky 2 buckets

I have no issues with cutting across pitches. I don’t think you are rude just living in the past. I’d love to buy beer at 1970’s prices but life changes with the years. You rent your space for x days & that is it. By getting stressed you are taking away from your own holiday/break. I’ve met folk & talked quite a while as they cut thru the pitch I was renting it has happened many many times too🤷🏻‍♂️

Posted on 14/01/2023 22:30

If I wanted to talk to someone, as folk have done to us, enquiring about our RV, what we think of it etc. I would go an introduce myself to them, as they have done to us. Not just cut across their pitch because it is a shorter route to the facilities. That’s just plain rude.

InaD replied on 14/01/2023 22:54

Posted on 14/01/2023 17:27 by Cornersteady

but it’s the design and layout of some sites which lead to it happening

That is just not true, the design and layout has nothing to do with it. Anymore than cars having the ability to go past a speed limit causes speeding.

It is happening because won't respect the rules and their fellow campers and/or if those rules are not enforced or the behaviour is not challenged.

Posted on 14/01/2023 22:54

I think the design and layout DO sometimes contribute to people cutting across a pitch.  We've been on a pitch at Hawes, many years ago, where there were another couple of pitches diagonally behind ours. Rather than walking on the site road, the people on one of those pitchess just cut diagonally across from their pitch, across the grass, and onto ours, to then walk along the raod to where they were going.  It must have saved then a few yards and a few seconds undecided And there are other CAMC sites I can think of where I've seen people walk from their pitch across others, en route to the toiletblock, Wharfedale for one.

Rocky 2 buckets replied on 14/01/2023 23:39

Posted on 14/01/2023 22:30 by SteveL

If I wanted to talk to someone, as folk have done to us, enquiring about our RV, what we think of it etc. I would go an introduce myself to them, as they have done to us. Not just cut across their pitch because it is a shorter route to the facilities. That’s just plain rude.

Posted on 14/01/2023 23:39

They weren’t introducing themselves I talked to them. My initial thought re CAMC members was-aloof, stiff & antisocial so I talked to them(on my pitch) some continued availing themselves of the shortcut without interaction but most relaxed👍🏻. If we all maintained your attitude life would be void of new experiences & friends🤷🏻‍♂️. In Yorkshire everyone is a friend until they prove otherwise.

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