When I got home

It all about how they are bought up 

It was made clear as our children grew up, we are their perants  not their slaves

After the age of 16 our chidren stopped coming with us, and we never came back to a mess, even after they had mates and friend across for a non party

A clip round the ear a boot up the backside and scream at him to shift his butt or get out 

then after thirty seconds when looking at his pitiful face  and realising he doesn't have a clue what he's done or haven't done as the case maybe !  Say sorry give him a hug and get on with the chores yourself  there sorted not worth all the stress is it 

I  would  have  followed  on  from  JwithaJ's  idea  --  since  you  were  doing  the  cooking  only  do  enough  for  your  self  &  your  lady.  When  he  says  "Where's  mine?"    Just  say  that  from  the  mess  you  thought  he'd  already  eaten !!

My advice is to get a dishwasher.

 

Write your comments here...Got one but it broke 

he mostly cooks for him self as he works varied hours ,so it is not often we all eat together , he has one black wall the rest magnolia , he does keep his room tidy ,just does not do much in the line of washing up, we know he knows how because he does it while we are on our hols 

No he don't he's kidding you , or you haven't heard of takeaways  that comes in carton's or plastic tubs  eating out and paper plates