Friendly wave

IDRIS1 replied on 21/01/2020 09:48

Posted on 21/01/2020 09:48

I'm very new to motor homing !! On only my 2nd trip out in my unit - I encountered a fellow motor homer coming towards me who gave me a very enthusiastic wave and a flash of his lights !! of course I responded !! but is that normal / expected - i'm happy to give anyone a wave but don't wish to look like a **** ??

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Rocky 2 buckets replied on 26/01/2020 11:22

Posted on 26/01/2020 11:11 by cyberyacht

Now here's a thought. Is our reluctance to connect with another of our "tribe" a symptom of our increasingly isolated and individualistic society? I post this as a subject to ponder rather than an attempt to make this thread vie with "Sunday departures" for top slot. 

Posted on 26/01/2020 11:22

NoπŸ‘πŸ». It’s more not wanting to connect with folk who do things I personally don’t like nor intend to do. I accept for some it’s a pleasure-for them I’m happyπŸ‘πŸ»πŸ‘πŸ»

JVB66 replied on 26/01/2020 11:23

Posted on 26/01/2020 11:11 by cyberyacht

Now here's a thought. Is our reluctance to connect with another of our "tribe" a symptom of our increasingly isolated and individualistic society? I post this as a subject to ponder rather than an attempt to make this thread vie with "Sunday departures" for top slot. 

Posted on 26/01/2020 11:23

You could well be right there CY as this site has been full this weekend and it seems the "weekend warriors? " are very much an insular tribe ,  as apart from having the head down to use mobile phones,  there is no communication to other members who are more able to communicate by what we used to call talking face to facecoolundecided

Metheven replied on 26/01/2020 11:34

Posted on 26/01/2020 11:11 by cyberyacht

Now here's a thought. Is our reluctance to connect with another of our "tribe" a symptom of our increasingly isolated and individualistic society? I post this as a subject to ponder rather than an attempt to make this thread vie with "Sunday departures" for top slot. 

Posted on 26/01/2020 11:34

Sorry but I can't see a connection being made by maybe a fleeting glance of someone travelling in the opposite direction.

A connection is made face to face, reading that person that can result into a cheery hello, or maybe one to ignore next time, or 'clicking' and becoming a short/long term friend.

But many choose to avert their eyes, pretend to be looking elsewhere when walking past you, or looking constantly at the ground in front of them. So yes in that instance, we are becoming more insular.

Rocky 2 buckets replied on 26/01/2020 11:38

Posted on 26/01/2020 11:23 by JVB66

You could well be right there CY as this site has been full this weekend and it seems the "weekend warriors? " are very much an insular tribe ,  as apart from having the head down to use mobile phones,  there is no communication to other members who are more able to communicate by what we used to call talking face to facecoolundecided

Posted on 26/01/2020 11:38

It may be the insular tribe are purposely cutting out the waffler tribe from stopping them every few yards to moan about weather/govt/brexit/aches & pains/dogs/use of heaters et al. I communicat with family & friends daily by using the mobile phoneπŸ‘πŸ»πŸ˜Š

JVB66 replied on 26/01/2020 11:46

Posted on 26/01/2020 11:38 by Rocky 2 buckets

It may be the insular tribe are purposely cutting out the waffler tribe from stopping them every few yards to moan about weather/govt/brexit/aches & pains/dogs/use of heaters et al. I communicat with family & friends daily by using the mobile phoneπŸ‘πŸ»πŸ˜Š

Posted on 26/01/2020 11:46

They may as well save their money then,  as it seems they have no idea of their surroundings ,as it not just a couple of minutes they are blind to what's going on where they aresurprised

huskydog replied on 26/01/2020 11:57

Posted on 26/01/2020 11:57

What happened to the “live and let live “ that some members were in agreement with , I don’t really care what other folks do , wave or not ,I’m not going to pigeon hole you for doing either cool

rayjsj replied on 19/05/2020 11:30

Posted on 19/05/2020 11:30

Yes, its Friendly, as long as you remain in full control of your vehicle, my wife tends to do the waving, she sometimes waves at Ambulances, White Van men , Small Coaches and even the odd Ice cream van,  some M/homers just give an 'Icy Stare' in reply...guess they are just not friendly ? Takes all kinds....we wave....no light flashing though, thats just to warn about speed camera vans..followed by a 'thumb down'.  We dont like people shooting Badgers either.

hitchglitch replied on 21/05/2020 08:34

Posted on 21/05/2020 08:34

Sixty years ago my father had an RAC sticker on the car windscreen and the patrolmen would always wave when they saw it. Mind, not much traffic in those days,

Navigateur replied on 22/05/2020 17:51

Posted on 22/05/2020 17:51

Many of the newcomers to "This Motoring" do not know the significance of the salute from the AA man - often on his motorcycle combination.

The point about the salute was when he did not do it.  It meant that there was a police speed trap ahead. This was seen as "obstructing the police" and the AA ended up in the High Court over it.  The rulling was that one cannot obstruct the police by NOT doing something.

That was in the days when the AA, and The Caravan Club for that matter, were actual members' clubs.

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