He's missing the boss

How long ago did you lose your other dog katieb? I think they do miss one another, I know our dogs do. We are rarely a one dog household, as we have seen the sheer joy they have playing together, even if the first introductions can be a tad fraught. If we are in a situation where we only have one, we do take more time for the lone dog, lots of fuss, plenty of reassurance, and luckily we never have to leave them alone, they go everywhere with us. Dogs do pine, for their owners, for their canine chums, but they also get through it with lots of love and attention. All the best.

Aww poor chap - and yes they definitely mourn lost companions human or canine.  I have always fed dogs separately - to be sure of your scenario not happening.  Being pack leader is very important in my opinion although I suppose it depends a bit on breed.  If I let my GSDs rule the roost I would have been in a lot of trouble!  For me I wouldn't want a small dog to rule my roost either!  I think they are happier when they have boundaries. 

Thanks for the comments.  Although there will always be a Gina shaped hole in our hearts I do know things get better with time.

its not been that long we lost the boss so we're still getting used to the new order.  I do believe I'm now number one in our pack of three!

Our last dog was our first and I guess we made many errors.  She was extremely strong willed and I'm afraid we did let her get away with a lot, including sharing the bed.  Being a whippet, no real harm was done as she got her way with us mainly through charm and caused no problems with other people. The boy is a different character - more laid back and willing to take orders but I'm sure that's partly because we have always been firmer with him and the old dog trained him well too.

Hi 

we are going through the same issues our older dog, Patch died aged 18 yrs in September and this really affected  our 12 yr old Daisy, she is so sad, cannot be left has to sleep in her basket in our bedroom she is losing weight it is as if she has given up.

They never seemed to have a lot to do with each other but were always together, she follows me everywhere and if left even in the car she gets really agitated and howls like a wolf, when Patch was alive we never heard a peep from them wether left or in the house with us, they always slept in the kitchen in their own baskets and where happy to go into kennels for short spells. Spoke to several professional dog trainers and vet but nothing is working to help her get over losing Patch.

hope in time she recovers.

Clarinetman I took on an elderly rescue dog and she was so smelly the first night I tried the kitchen - that didn't work - the noise was amazing for an otherwise placid soul!  I tried to get someone to have her to stay while I went abroad - and he tried to barricade the stairs - she managed to move a hefty barricade to get to the bedroom!  Have you thought of adopting (or fostering) an older dog to keep yours company?  The Dog's Trust are looking for foster homes all the time. 

Clarinetman - I hope things will get better for Daisy but its natural for all of us to grieve for a while when we lose those close to us.  Like you, our two were never that close to each other in the normal way but being with someone 24/7 you kind of get used to their presence and Miss them when they're gone.

Pippah's idea of adopting an older dog might help - the Dogs Trust will always let you have one on a 'trial' basis and would take it back if things really didn't work out.

We've decided not to get another dog to replace our first one as there's no guarantee the boy will get on with her and in the last few weeks I think he is beginning to like being the only one.  We've not tried kennels yet - that might be a step too far at the moment.  The old dog effectively ruled the kennels staff, just as she did us - she always got the tastiest treats out of them by incorrigible begging and deploying all the winning ways she could and the boy also benefitted from this, as the staff wanted to treat them equally.  Likewise, at the vets, she insisted upon a treat before any treatment and the vet has continued this practice with the boy - no wonder he misses her!

i really do hope Daisy recovers her zest for life - let us know how things progress.