Who are you? An individual or not?

What I mean is: 

Do you post as yourself, and does anyone else using your membership post as well?

Do they have their own CT login, and/or do they read what you post?

Sometimes posters mention their “other half”. Does the OH know what has been said about them?

Does it matter if it’s ambiguous as to whether you are male or female?

I’m not the lead member (just the way we took out membership many moons ago), but do all the posting (and booking etc), and at first glance I appear to be a cow. I do mention the forum from time to time, and might make a general comment about subjects that come up. But my OH is not really interested in individual posts.