May I be excused?

Pippah45 replied on 27/01/2017 10:08

Posted on 27/01/2017 10:08

This reminds me of a story a few winters ago when the local school bus broke down in the snow and one girl wanted to "go" passing motorists offered help and the bus driver asked the female of the couple to accompany the kid behind a bush.  Female refused on the grounds of she might be accused of..........  Then a mother stopped and was asked the same thing - she again refused for fear of accusations.  The girl said "oh well I will just have to wet the seat then"  unfortunately history doesn't relate the outcome but if I had stopped and offered to help - I would have helped and be damned to anyone who tried to accuse me of anything.  Surely common sense says I could have stayed within sight of the bus with the child hidden behind the hedge?  Sad times we live in indeed.  And well done California really (I think although schools may have a tough time with genuine toilet breakers?)

 

 

 

 

 

Cornersteady replied on 27/01/2017 11:09

Posted on 27/01/2017 11:09

I've just got a text from a still teaching friend who is going to conspire with a suitable student and then split the proceeds equally. She said that she's going to get 80% and 20% for the student.

(hence the choice of suitable student - someone not that good at maths)

Rocky 2 buckets replied on 27/01/2017 13:45

Posted on 27/01/2017 13:45

Pip, I don't think that it's the sad times we live in, it's so rare that it's newsworthy. We just need to be smart enough to ensure we act with respect & probity around Children. The times we live in is a lot safer & respectful of Children's needs, I'd not change a thingsmile

brue replied on 27/01/2017 14:04

Posted on 27/01/2017 14:04

When my sister started school aged five a teacher prevented her from using the loos during class time. My sister then developed a phobia (bladder retention) which took quite a while to cure. Luckily our Mum was quick off the mark in sorting this with a kind GP who was furious about the incident too. Both my Mum and sister later became headteachers with a much more kindly attitude to children than the awful one they both experienced. The story reminded of this incident, not funny. frown

JVB66 replied on 27/01/2017 14:14

Posted on 27/01/2017 11:09 by Cornersteady

I've just got a text from a still teaching friend who is going to conspire with a suitable student and then split the proceeds equally. She said that she's going to get 80% and 20% for the student.

(hence the choice of suitable student - someone not that good at maths)

Posted on 27/01/2017 14:14

Was it from cc marketingsurprised

Mr H replied on 27/01/2017 21:03

Posted on 27/01/2017 21:03

At a primary school, where my wife worked, there was a boy with Downs Syndrome who suffered with incontinence. The Head teacher was the only male, so each time there was an occurrence (quite often) the Head had to stop what he was doing to assist.

Pippah45 replied on 28/01/2017 10:33

Posted on 27/01/2017 13:45 by Rocky 2 buckets

Pip, I don't think that it's the sad times we live in, it's so rare that it's newsworthy. We just need to be smart enough to ensure we act with respect & probity around Children. The times we live in is a lot safer & respectful of Children's needs, I'd not change a thingsmile

Posted on 28/01/2017 10:33

I am afraid I have to disagree with you there Rocky - I would like to take the "fear of litigation" away from people who would do the right thing - i.e. the two people who walked away from that little girl in the bus for fear.  Of course I agree there is a need to keep children safe but it seems to me the pendulum has swung just a touch too far. And still sadly children can be fed drugs and get beaten by their parents too.  

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